a christmas story!

i love christmas.  i heart it.  it’s the most awesomest holiday EVER.  motherfuckin’ *santa* is comin’!  yippee!!

so, mah tree is up…

my fireplace is ~lit~...

(chestnuts roasting on a ... bunchacandles…)

and i’m busy busy busy gettin’ everything else ready.  have i mentioned i really love christmas?

while roaming the internets, i came across this article the other day (a 2008 series of interviews with mall santas):

“I don’t hear kids wanting Wii’s or Barbies. They want Daddy to come back, they want socks and shoes,” he tells me adjusting his red hat, taking in the cool breeze from the fan pointing directly at him.

it caught my eye, because i used to work at the toy store in that mall, many many many….many.  moons ago. 

the last year i was there, we’d a little boy, maybe 4 or 5 years old, who used to hang around all day by himself.  his mother worked at the walgreen’s *diner* (yes, they used to have a diner!) and she couldn’t afford daycare.  since he pretty much had the run of the mall, he made friends with those of us at all his regular stops, but the toy store was ~obviously~ his favorite place.  i had a brother close in age and, feeling sorry for this little boy with nothing to do all day but roam the mall, i pretty much adopted him as my “little helper”.

his mother and i would wave at one another, though i don’t think we ever spoke.  she only knew me as ~the toy store girl~.  the other employees, even the store manager, would “find” open toy packages and leave them for me to give him.  he’d draw and color pictures for me, “help” me stock toys, play store security (“miss, i think that boy has a tonka truck under his shirt” - like i’d not noticed), and just generally became a fixture in our store.  i’d come into work and they’d tell me, “your little friend was here looking for you”. 

daily, he’d follow me around, babbling non-stop.  repeatedly, he’d tell me that all he wanted was for his dad to come back home.  his dad had gone to “this place called cadifurnia” looking for a job and his mom and he had no furniture in their tiny apt.  he hoped to someday have a real bed.  absolutely broke my heart.

then one day, just days before christmas, i came into work and there stood the little boy… WITH BOTH HIS PARENTS!  his father had come home - bringing a bed, new clothes, and a whole heap load of happiness for one little boy.  his parents had brought me a gift (perfume and a tray) as a thank you (i told them it wasn’t necessary, he was a delight to have hanging around) and begged me to take a picture on santa’s lap with their son (which i did. poor santa.).

every christmas, i remember that lil boy and wonder where he’s gotten to and how well he fared in life.

koorosh, wherever you might be, i hope the happiness you felt that christmas has stayed with you always.

and may ~all of you~ have as wonderful a christmas, as well.

i’ll leave you with this, my favoritest christmas song EVER:

maurice chevalier - jolly old st nicholas

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Tagged as: memories,christmas December 10, 2009 @ 07:29 am

“the story of cap and trade”

from the story of stuff (also well worth watching) comes “the story of cap and trade”:

The Story of Cap & Trade from Story of Stuff Project on Vimeo.

this reminds me…

i once worked for a company who built refineries / chemical plants.  the engineers would talk about “toxic waste pools” that poisoned the wildlife around the plants / refineries over in the middle east - wild dogs who “went crazy” from drinking from the pools, bedouin who’d have to be paid for cattle that died after drinking from the pools, etc.  i was taken aback by their nonchalance.  they just thought it was funny.  when questioned why such a thing would be allowed, that it was harmful to the environment, they said “but that’s over there, not over here” and they were *serious*. because.  you know.  we don’t all share one atmosphere and one earth.  “over there” can’t get all mingled up with “over here”.  thank god for those invisible barricades, borders.  :|

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Tagged as: politics,videos December 10, 2009 @ 07:12 am

adt, it still sucks, *proof*...

in a follow up to why adt sucks, i give you this beaut (oh, and now? comcast sucks, too, but we already knew that), False Sense Of Security?:

adt customer’s alarm found lying on the floor, beeping, after her house is burglarized.  adt never called her nor the police.
another adt customer found her system wasn’t working either.
comcast customer sets off his own comcast alarm accidentally… no response by comcast.

“You may have service. You may not. Play Russian roulette and find out,” said Dan Parsons, president of the Houston Better Business Bureau.

Parsons said it’s not what consumers expect when we pay for a service.

“People are doing this, thinking they are doing the right thing and counting that that expenditure’s protecting them,” he said.

in the case of the comcast customer, his account was accidentally placed in “inactive status” for 15 months.  15 months that he’d been paying for service.  (comcast did credit the customer for those 15 months.)

one adt customer was told that the ~adt authorized dealer~, protect your home, (seriously, don’t get an alarm from some guy in a back alley) had placed her account out of service.

the other adt customer…

When ADT refused to give McDaniels any answers, her insurance company hired an alarm expert to test her alarm system.

We obtained a copy of the investigator’s report that says ADT improperly installed the cellular backup alarm in McDaniels’ home. When the burglars ripped out the alarm hooked to her telephone line, the backup never sent a signal to ADT.

The investigator wrote, “ADT’s actions and inactions in this matter were deceptive and a deliberate disregard to the safety and security of Ms. McDaniel”—what he believes is a violation of the Texas Occupations Code.

“They provided me with a box that beeped when I went in and out of my house to make me feel a little better,” McDaniels said.

McDaniels’ insurance company is now battling with ADT to recoup the $14,000 in damage and stolen property from the burglary.

both adt and comcast put the onus on the customer to test that their systems are working properly (btw, so does broadview security).

“You’re doing your part in paying the bill and turning it on isn’t enough,” Wilson said.

Local 2 Investigates got the same information from alarm companies. Both ADT and Comcast told us it is the customer’s responsibility to test their alarm every month.

Comcast’s customer contract actually reads that the subscriber shall “carefully test the system daily during the term of this agreement” and “notify the company in the event of any defect.”

“The company’s getting paid to do this,” said Parsons. “And you’d like to think that you shouldn’t have to worry and then have a false sense of security. It’s more than a false sense of security. It’s letting the ball drop from someone who’s in the business to do this.”

in other words, make sure you’re testing your alarm, because the alarm companies aren’t really as interested in protecting your home as much as they are in collecting your payments.

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Tagged as: home,day2day December 02, 2009 @ 07:19 pm